A life in obedience to Allah

Under normal circumstances, many people can be just. However, in dealing with other human beings, there are two major impediments to justice - love and hatred. Islam commands its followers to be just, even in the face of strong conflicting emotions.

The Prophet Muhammed (S.A.W.) said in a hadith which means, “Each of you is a leader, and each leader will be held accountable for what he has led.” (Hadith narrated by al-Bukhari)
The Prophet (S.A.W.) obeyed the orders of Allah in all of his affairs, adopting justice with his Companions and enemies. The Prophet (S.A.W.) would never deny anyone justice, despite those who objected to him and showed an unfavourable attitude towards him.

As Muslims, we are required to live a life in obedience to Allah, which is a continuous balancing act, both individually and collectively. We are reminded that our actions are being watched, especially by our children, and they take cue and model themselves after us, sometimes more than what we preach and say to them. Imagine the impact on our community, if each and every one of us (especially, parents) is a successful leader in his or her own right.

In our family life, real leadership takes place through our own actions and behaviours. Parents will have to consider the needs of each family member fairly and not place his self-interest above the rest in making any decision.

Likewise in our own work life and in society, an effective leader is one who leads by example; the example of his acts and contributions. Even for ordinary employee or worker who may not have any subordinates. Yet, if we are the most diligent or industrious, we will become an example to others, and thus we may become a very effective leader.

May Allah Subha Nahu Wataala  grant us continued guidance for us to perform our roles and responsibilities successfully in the best possible manner.